Someone might have some data on how many men are into intergenational gay relationships, but through discussions and contacts, I've heard some very interesting insights.
Some younger guys tell me that they've been attracted to older men since they first came out of the closet.
Ideas about marriage, having children, finances, retirement, etc. The larger the age difference, the more difficult it may be to find common ground when it comes to key life goals.
You do not have to let them pull you and your partner apart at a time when you need one another.
"To each his own," my mother used to say, and as long as you're not causing any harm--who am I to judge?
This is not a detailed research report, but rather a summary of observations I've made about younger men for older men over the past two years while working for an online gay dating service.
If you find yourself in an intergenerational relationship, making sure you have common goals is more important than ever.
Generational differences, as well as being in different stages of life, complicate May - December dating and marriages.
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and that on rare occasion, they've been lucky enough to find younger guys who reciprocate their feelings.